Twenty-One Truths

The last couple of years of my life were the most trying and tiring years for me. I wanted to give up and I tried to give up, but God kept me. He kept me and strengthen me through all of my trials. I’m thankful for my life and for another year of being alive.

I’ve learned a few things thus far and in light of it being my 21st birthday this month, I will be sharing 21 truths.

1. A Relationship with God is not a feeling it’s a choice.

2. You are not of this world, you are of a chosen generation.

3. Opinions don’t matter…. but sometimes they do.

4. Convictions come at God’s time, not yours. Don't judge others.

5. Know the importance of meaningful friendships.

6. Know the importance of unity.

7. Never settle for less.

8. Forgiveness is for you.

9. It’s not too much for God to handle, It's never too far gone for God to restore.

10. It’s okay to lack, God fills the gap.

11. Sacrifice is better than regret.

12. Pain is inevitable but there is purpose.

13. Tears are to be shed, it’s ok to cry.

14. Nothing is over till God says it’s over.

15. Progression, not perfection.

16. It’s okay to ask for help.

17. Because it happened to them that way doesn’t mean that is how it will happen to you, but surely your blessing will come.

18. God will fight for you.

19. Seasons of isolation are crucial.

20. You’re not the only one going through pain but you’re the only one who gets to define your pain.

21. The promise still stands.

EDIT FROM SEPTEMBER 12

Turning 21 has been a big deal to me for the longest time. The past couple of months leading up to this day I wasn't quite as excited as I am today because the Devil crippled me in fear and anxiety with thoughts about how this would be my first birthday without my mother physically present. That thought alone had the power to send me to deep sadness, but as I sit here ending my day beside my mother’s grave I feel at peace, I feel happy, I feel blessed.

The last two decades have been enlightening and I have learned much more than this list can express. I hope some of these words resonated with you or at least got you thinking.

No matter what the day to day might seem, the Almighty God has so much more in store for me and I am ready to continue my journey.

Happy 21st Birthday to me.

I love you guys.